So I’m back from Amsterdam! There was no point in unpacking though because I just had to pack again to move out of Adine’s house :’( I had the most amazing 2 months living with my best friend. But all good things come to an end I guess. I’ve finally found something permanent where I’m not living out of a suitcase so I’m more than content. 

These 2 months have been extremely life changing for me. I feel like I’ve made that transition from dependent to completely independent in such a short amount of time. I’m kind of making it up and learning as I go along. But I know this is the happiest I have been in a very long time. I have the best people around me, I have a great job and more importantly I have stability.

Life is very good indeed :) 

I think this whole ‘I don’t and never will understand the opposite sex’ is complete bullshit to be honest. Like, to me it’s the biggest misconception.

I think that a lot of the time its just the lack of intelligence to communicate properly. Nothing more important and self resolving like a good old chat over a cuppa or a few stronger drinks..(depending on how big the issue is).

But yeah, I’m just forever seeing it on my timeline and thought I would get off my chest just how mythical I believe it is. Every successful relationship I have witnessed is based on understanding and good communication. Seems like the easy option nowadays is to just dismiss an issue as ‘it’s because he’s a male’ or ‘it’s because she has a vagina’. 

There’s nothing greater than (apart from pickled peppers) a human being that wants to make you happy but does so without even trying! What’s even greaterrr..(no not pickled gherkins) is that moment where you realise they have this ability.