Update n shit.
So I’m back from Amsterdam! There was no point in unpacking though because I just had to pack again to move out of Adine’s house :’( I had the most amazing 2 months living with my best friend. But all good things come to an end I guess. I’ve finally found something permanent where I’m not living out of a suitcase so I’m more than content.
These 2 months have been extremely life changing for me. I feel like I’ve made that transition from dependent to completely independent in such a short amount of time. I’m kind of making it up and learning as I go along. But I know this is the happiest I have been in a very long time. I have the best people around me, I have a great job and more importantly I have stability.
Life is very good indeed :)
I think this whole ‘I don’t and never will understand the opposite sex’ is complete bullshit to be honest. Like, to me it’s the biggest misconception.
I think that a lot of the time its just the lack of intelligence to communicate properly. Nothing more important and self resolving like a good old chat over a cuppa or a few stronger drinks..(depending on how big the issue is).
But yeah, I’m just forever seeing it on my timeline and thought I would get off my chest just how mythical I believe it is. Every successful relationship I have witnessed is based on understanding and good communication. Seems like the easy option nowadays is to just dismiss an issue as ‘it’s because he’s a male’ or ‘it’s because she has a vagina’.
There’s nothing greater than (apart from pickled peppers) a human being that wants to make you happy but does so without even trying! What’s even greaterrr..(no not pickled gherkins) is that moment where you realise they have this ability.
Anonymous murmured: you're so beautiful inside and out.